Driving
through the streets of Port Au Prince en route to the airport there are so
memories gained in such a short time, so many impactful experiences. Haiti is
a hard place. The sidewalks are lined with people selling their wares, cooking
food, hawking medicine, cosmetics, car parts, anything imaginable. Here is
a place where the dichotomy between rich and poor is as stark as anywhere on
earth. There are well stocked
grocery stores, beautiful hotels, private school and nice neighborhoods in
Haiti. They are all well-guarded
to ensure the safety and comfort of those on the inside. Not far
away, many more are living with barely enough to subsist. Families
are living without shelter going without food for days at a time. Parents
are left to wonder what they should do with their children.
One
story will suffice. One
woman that I visited with reported that she had six children.
I
only saw four and asked her where the other two were. She
responded that they were being taken care of wealthier people and that they
were going to school. Over
dinner I mentioned how nice it was of these people to do this to a person with
Fonkoze. The person smiled at me
and then said that it is very common for people of means to take children into
their homes and then put them to work sending these young people to lower level
schools. What would I do as a
parent in that situation? Keep my
child home while we struggle or at least make sure that they are in school? I don't
have a good answer for the question. What I
do know for certain is that if the mother continues her training through
Fonkoze, knowing that the day will come in the not too distant future when she
will be able to educate her own children.
All
that said, I am leaving Haiti inspired and hopeful.
If
you want to see the power of the human spirit, Haiti is a remarkable place to
visit. I see the NGO's at work
staffed by remarkably talented and caring people. The
dedication of all of the people of Fonkoze, from Father Joseph, to Nick (who
accompanied us everywhere, often in the back of the pick-up truck), all the way
to our driver to Bernic were truly inspirational.
As
Steve Werlin told me: "Unlike most things in life I have immediate
gratification every day. I see
the good we are doing and the changes that are impacting people's lives in real
time."
Let
me conclude my blog on Haiti by telling you about a one more person. Her name
is Linda Bouchard. Linda is
Haitian born and has been
blessed with a number of opportunities in life.
She
attended university in the United States. She and
her husband have made a beautiful life together with their children and
grandchild. She is
one of the privileged of Haiti, yet she works tirelessly for Fonkoze.
Linda
exudes an enthusiasm for her work and a love for her people that are
unparalleled. She
tells us that she could not live there if she was not giving back and helping
others. Emma and I felt blessed
in getting to know her. She is
an excellent ambassador for Fonkoze.
Like
most of you, I have spent time this week reflecting about the death of Elie
Wiesel. I would like to believe
that our visit to Haiti and the work that we did and will continue to do honor
his memory in a small way. During
my days in Haiti I often reflected on Wiesel's words:
"The
opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The
opposite of beauty is not ugliness, it's indifference. The
opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference.
And
the opposite of life is not death, but indifference between life and
death."
I
leave you with words of
Elie Wiesel and the hope that some will take the time to look at the Fonkoze
web site and support this very worthy organization. Your
donations will help to create more classes, more business, more changed lives
for Haiti's poorest. Consider
it an act to counter the world's indifference to this very poor country.
The
attached video captured one of the most powerful moments of the trip. We were
in a remote area of the plateau watching a business meeting where the members
of the group learn business skills and work together for greater success.
There
was singing and prayer throughout the meeting. Since I
could not speak with them directly I thought that I could teach them a song.
They learned "shalom haverim". Here are the results and a bit of the
spirit of the Haitian people.